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Your old defence mechanisms are keeping you STUCK.

February 7, 2023  Dr. Shelby

For those of you who KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that you were born for more,

and you are here to make a difference,

to inspire many

and even change the world….

I have some good news.

when it comes to being the leader,

the influencer

that person that inspires her people

moves mountains 

and shares her message from the rooftops,

all while dancing and playing in the flow of life…

its really all about fully being YOU.

its all about how YOU perceive yourself

whether you own your brilliance

your genius

your ability to transform lives,

to be SEEN

to be trusted

to be respected

it all boils down to YOU and what you perceive of yourself

It’s about…

whether YOU fully see yourself, your brilliance, your light.

whether YOU fully trust and align and take action on what’s coming through you

whether YOU respect yourself enough to fully show up as being YOU.

whether YOU consistently tune in and answer the call and follow the beat of your own heart

its ALL about you.

most people think they have to jump through all the metaphorical hoops

to try to change how they are perceived by other people

they think they need to look a certain way

act a certain way

hang around the *right* crowd

all to become someone they think they gotta be.

Well, let me share a little secret….

WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU

it’s all about how YOU perceive YOU.

when I discovered this my initial reaction was “whew”

because I didn’t like trying to be someone I’m not

I didn’t like trying to fit a mould that just doesn’t fit my shape

I didn’t like trying to “fake it until you make it”

I just wanted to be ME.

All of me.

and those that align and resonate will come.

and they did.

And what’s really cool is I’ve learned some amazing AF ways to embody BEING the person you desire to be,

that’s deep inside

just dying to get out

and shine her light.

it’s about switching your identity

and, no it’s not about trying to be someone else.

Rather, it is about owning your own greatness

taking down the personas, masks, compensations, and 

defense mechanisms that were put up consciously or unconsciously in childhood

you see there are nothing wrong with these adaptations or compensations

the masks were all put up in order to stay safe

to protect you

or maybe these old personas were put up in order to get love…

love from mom

love from dad

love from another

ALL of this is created in your Identity,

of who you think you are

And here’s the thing…

what YOU believe you are,

others will ALSO believe.

Monkey Believe, Monkey See.

Or something like that lol.

So again, BECOMING the person you want to be,

actually all boils down to a few important concepts…

1. Identifying your old-outdated defense mechanisms that keep you STUCK getting the same results over and over again

2. Feeling safe enough to take down your masks / protective defense mechanisms

and 3. switching your identity of who you believe you truly are. 

In other words, BECOMING more fully YOU. 

all of you. 

end.

period.

done.

finito.

New Life. 

New You.

(the Real you).

and then you BECOME.

If you feel called to BECOME that next level version of yourself

to take down the walls

the outdated protective mechanisms that were only put up to keep you safe…

Apply to work with me 1 on 1. 

I’ll teach you how to feel safe fully being you

how to embody your light, your brilliance and the message that you came here to share

and make life MAGIC again.

it’s fun.

it’s liberating.

it’s transformative.

you won’t be the same you again, 

which is a good thing.

promise,

XO

Apply Now to Work With Dr. Shelby

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