One of the things I consistently tell my clients is,
to create a habit of tuning into their Soul DAILY.
Like every.single.MF.day.
Being present in the moment,
So that they KNOW what each moment is FOR.
So they can feel confident, certain and have an embodiment and knowingness,
that they are doing what they are meant to be doing.
I can’t stress how important and life changing this habit is.
To show up each and every day,
aligned AF,
and taking action aligned with your Soul.
I’ll share a bit of my own story.
If you’ve been following me and my journey,
You’ll know that 9 months ago I came to Australia to help Ian pack up and move to Canada.
And of course we stayed in Australia a lot longer than expected….
But that’s not the story, or the point.
The point is….5 years ago I made a very important decision,
I made a choice that would FOREVER change the course and history of my life.
I walked away from a cherished business relationship,
I walked away from a would-be million dollar clinic ownership,
I walked away from a then mentor and close friend,
I walked away from something that looked AMAZING on paper,
Like “OMG is this actually real?!” kind of set-up….
Yet, it was NOT totally Soul Aligned.
And boy was I scared AF.
I KNEW there was something that felt off.
I KNEW there was something that deep down inside didn’t feel aligned.
And so I pulled the plug at the last minute of the last hour, right before the deal would be sealed.
And after that, it felt like my entire life as I knew it went up in flames.
It was an incredibly challenging time in my life.
It left me without financial security,
Business security,
Relationship security…
Or any type of knowingness that everything would work out, and I would be okay.
Side note, during that time I also ended up leaving the personal relationship I was in….in which I thought was going in the direction of marriage.
so EVERYTHING…EVERYTHING felt like it was all up in flames.
And I felt insecure, scared,
And also like a complete mess and failure.
I legit had no idea how my life would unfold next.
And as I sit here today, writing this blog, for YOU,
I am SO GRATEFUL I tuned into my Soul.
So grateful I listened to my inner voice,
Silenced the voices on the outside,
Listened to the call of my own heart,
and did the hard thing.
Because, I wouldn’t be here with Ian today if I didn’t.
I wouldn’t BE in australia, travelling the world, if I had signed that paper.
I wouldn’t have the life I have today if I followed through with “the right thing to do”
And I’m so grateful I had the courage to do so.
So if you are reading my message,
and there is something on your heart that needs to get out,
Or there is something in your life that just doesn’t feel right,
doesn’t feel aligned,
and you know there is an action to take,
yet are waiting for all the signs and security that you will be okay if you do…
STOP WAITING.
Pull the plug.
The older version of you, will thank you in time.
And yes, you will survive,
and yes you are safe,
and yes you will get through it.
You go this,
You always did.
Cheering you on from down under,
Dr. Shelby
P.S if you would love some coaching through your transition,
through making big changes,
all whilst deepening your connection with soul,
Apply to work with me, it will make the journey smoother with more ease, fun & flow: