One of the biggest misperceptions in the world of self help and manifestation,
is the belief that if you only think positive thoughts,
and do your daily affirmations,
you will manifest anything you desire.
lies.
lies.
lies.
I’ll let you in on a little secret, that took me about 2 years to discover in my own personal development journey,
you do not manifest what you desire, you manifest WHO YOU ARE.
let me repeat that, because it’s important…
you do not manifest what you desire, you only manifest WHO YOU ARE.
why is this important you ask?
Let me share a little bit of my own experience with you.
Because it might have you avoid a few traps I fell into.
For those of you who know me well, you know that when I want something, I REALLY go for it. LOL.
So when I first came across the idea of Manifestation,
I went to WORK on thinking positively,
I would say my affirmations like it was DAY MY JOB,
seriously…..
because it was.
I ONLY tried to let in positive thinking,
and when any “negative” thoughts or feelings came up,
I would quickly ignore them,
Shut them down,
Block them,
and pretend they didn’t even exist.
and then try to think nice happy thoughts again.
and the problem with this approach,
is that it is a COMPLETE recipe for disaster…..and can leave you in a state of highs and lows, and feelings of not good enough, “can’t get it right”, shame and guilt and feeling like there is something wrong with you.
If you too have tried this approach, rest assured….THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.
And….I have found a solution to True Manifestation.
But first…
Why is this? Why is it that if I just try to think positive thoughts, it can lead to extreme highs and lows?!
Because the more you deny something that exists within yourself, something that is PART of your human experience, the stronger it will become.
As the ol’ saying goes…What you resist, persists.
Essentially, feelings that we label as “negative” such as sadness, anger, shame, guilt and fear….are part of the human experience…and ALWAYS will be.
This is Truth.
And it’s likely, if you’re human….you have had moments in your life, most definitely in your childhood, where you have felt sadness, anger, shame, guilt & fear and have not likely processed these emotions properly, as we were never taught how to do so.
No sweat, I was never taught either.
So essentially when you DENY something inside of you….it will only get louder.
For example….if you can envision a pendulum,
The more you bring the pendulum to the right, the farther it will swing to the left.
Same with your emotions,
The more you try to think and feel positive (without being with what IS)…
The more you will also experience the negative feelings and thoughts on the downswing.
Got it?
That’s why those who are in a constant search of happiness under the old paradigm, never find it.
So where do we go from here?
How do we get results?
I would recommend BEING with what is, FIRST.
So if you feel sad. Feel it.
And watch it dissolve.
If you feel scared. Feel it.
And watch it disappear.
And in that space of presence, once your emotions (which cloud & muddy your True Self & True Voice) dissolve, this is where you can step into the place of Infinite Possibility,
Where all options that are shown inside of you exist,
Where your dreams, desires and visions….ARE POSSIBLE.
and feel the feelings you want to feel….
confidence,
certainty,
love,
validation,
appreciation,
significance,
limitlessness,
and so on and so forth are POSSIBLE.
And you also don’t experience the extreme downswing.
And life becomes easier,
You have more peace of mind,
especially Clarity,
And you begin to Manifest what you desire.
And life just becomes really fucking fun again.
Which is what it’s all about, isn’t it?
If you are reading this now, and you are frustrated with where you are at,
Maybe you’ve tried to Manifest with little luck,
Or you results are inconsistent,
I’ve created a high level 1 on 1 program to assist you BECOMING the person you see inside,
The one who was born for more,
The one who is so excited to contribute her unique gifts to the world,
And make a difference,
and live life on HER terms,
Not by what other people tell her she should do,
It’s all about flow, ease, fun and expanding TIME so it works FOR YOU,
If this is you,
If you are ready for some DEEP change,
EXPANSION,
and more flow,
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You know you are the called ones,
Dr. S
